As far as I heard monero nodes don't add double spent tx to their txpool (source), so if I connect to enough nodes it should be possible to lower the risk of a double spend attack right? (I could also cluster my control nodes if connection limitations would be a problem)
Via that logic it would also make sense to add nodes that are close or operated by mining pools.
What other options are there to also lower the risk?
I read this answer but since monero does not have things like Replace by Fee it sounds to me less friendly to attack.