What is there, what would you recommend? I'm only aware of localmonero. A search lead me to decentralized exchange simpleswap - which turns out is not trustworthy (you can find a reddit post about it).
I don't want/can't verify my identity, so centralized exchanges (Binance, FTX etc) are a no-go.
And BTC is one option for exchange, but actually, I'd prefer ETH.