I upgraded to v0.13.03 and when I start Monero the command prompt opens and closes ver quickly my wallet loads fine and shows my balance but my status is disconnected and the daemon is not connnected either. The log message is couldnt getting to 127.0.0.1 . Do I just have to wait for the database conversion? Or is there some fix for this? Please advise. Thank you.
A. Yes, at first, you must let the database do its upgrades. It actually could take an hour or two (hopefully nor more than that, but it depends).
B. Make sure you're not only using a v0.13 daemon, but also a v0.13 wallet as well. It sounds like you are, but just making sure.